I don’t really have time to get drawn into the ‘why don’t
women race mountain bikes (MTB)’ debate. But then something pissed me off. In
case you’re catching up the long running issue was again highlighted in this
well-considered article http://bit.ly/1Lgyh7l . It explores the way sporting
products (including MTB) are marketed to women. It was pretty much spot on and
something that British Downhill is trying to counter by mandating that 50% of
event promotion images must contain female competitors. Whether that will be
successful remains to be seen. You will
have to find that article yourself, I know you can.
So back to being irked this morning when hearing about a
female competitor contacting a race organiser to establish whether I was racing
a certain event. Apparently if I was she would not enter the same category as
the prize was obviously already determined. W.T.F? Are you for real? Sadly this
is not the first time this has happened and it got me thinking. Not thinking about
how men and marketing companies discriminate against women who race, but how we
are frequently ostracised BY OTHER WOMEN.
I’m all for encouraging more women to be active and ride
bikes. But if you want to race then it’s because you have set yourself a
challenge to be the best bike rider you can be – the fittest, the most skilled,
the fastest they are personally capable
of being. Guess what? Other women also set that challenge. Do not expect me
to gift you a race by not turning up. If you want to win a prize at a bike race
then you do that by training harder and riding faster and hopefully on the day
the winner is you. But sometimes other people are faster and that happens to
everyone – me and world champions included.
Everyone has bad days. But how are you going to find out when mine is if
you don’t enter? How are you going to know you’re improving if you don’t front
up and compare your performance? For every woman who changed categories when
they found out a woman they perceived as ‘faster’ was racing – you are part of
the problem. It overjoys me when I hear guys say that placing in their age
group has bored them and they want to race against the elite guys. I rarely
hear that from women.
Maybe I’ve just never got the women’s mindset. I started
riding with a bunch of guys and it was a sometimes brutal initiation. You get
your tyre fixed once if you forget a tube or don’t know how to install it.
After that, you better start walking. I rode stuff that scared the life out of
me just because everyone else was doing it. If I was the slowest one on the
ride and always being waited on, I went away, trained my ass off and came back
when I was faster. I didn’t whinge about the ride not being ‘inclusive’. Did I have doubts about my ability? Of
course. But I turned up and kept turning up and that’s how I got better.
There are, I believe, deeper societal issues at play as
well. At 12 girls start with the game of “You’re prettier” “No YOU’RE prettier”
as if being better than each other in any realm means they can’t be friends.
There is a subtle (and sometimes not so subtle) undertone that competing
against another female is somehow violating the sisterhood and how we should
all be united against common enemies like men and patriarchal society etc. How
does this result in less women racing MTB? How the hell do I know? I’m not a
demographer/sociologist. This is just what I think about on my long rides when
I’m feeling guilty about not spending time being ‘motherly’ with my
daughter/working on my career/tanning at the salon so I can finally hook a
doctor husband (please note sarcasm). Even when taking women’s rides I am told
to ‘tone down’ my competitive image and to wear baggy shorts instead of lycra
so I don’t intimidate anyone. Those of you who know me will have guessed I wear
whatever the hell I want.
Looking at event start lists, the longer an event is, the
lower percentage of women enter. Don’t women like long events? Or is it because
they still do the bulk of housework and child-raising while holding down jobs
and don’t have time to do the long k’s it takes to make 100km MTB even vaguely
enjoyable?
Why should I care that more women don’t race? If women
are riding and enjoying it and buying bikes so my sponsors are happy, shouldn’t
I just take the prize money and shut up? I want other women to race because it
makes the event better for me, for girls who come to watch their dad race (but
not their mum??), for clubs who love to see families all getting involved. It
makes the whole sport look great. Talking to one of my under 17 girls who won a
race last week, she lamented that she was only one or two entrants and then the
other girl broke her chain. She WANTS to compete and is likely to learn more
about bike racing and herself from all the races she doesn’t win. If girls
don’t want to race then that’s fine. But if they DO want to race but are being
discouraged or conditioned to think it’s not a ‘feminine’ thing to do then that
is NOT FINE.
I’ve always admired how men can race against each other
then go have a beer or recovery ride together afterwards. Even in my riding
group competition is permitted and trash-talking encouraged. You know THAT guy
is the top dog and then THIS guy is second. This guy is a good climber, but
THAT guy has the maddest skills. You don’t become the Top Dog by tearing that
guy down personally and not turning up on rides because ‘it’s not fair’. If you
want to be the Top Dog you get out and do an extra rep of your local climb and
you get up in winter when its dark and you get fitter and stronger.
Do I believe that men are naturally more competitive than
women? I’m not sure. Anyone on a bunch ride will tell you that’s absolutely the
case. I’d say boys definitely have more confidence than girls, even at a young
age. They’re a lot quicker to overrate their ability with absolutely no
evidence, than a girl. But I know some very competitive girls. I’m not going to
say we’re all great friends and spend time braiding each other’s hair when we
are not racing. I don’t have to like them all, but I do RESPECT every one of
them who put their arses on the line week after week racing the best riders
they can find. So to all the women bemoaning that we are faster than you,
content yourselves that you probably have higher salaries, more sex, cleaner
nails and more girls’ margarita nights than the woman that just toweled you at
the race.
If you want to know about racing hard and not winning, go
race world cup. It’s about adjusting your goals. First you race to just not get
lapped by the winners. Then if you get better you try not to get beaten by more
than 15 minutes, then 10 minutes…I’d rather do that that win another set of
men’s XL gloves in a race of one. But maybe I’m weird.
When I enter races I try not to think about winning or
prize money. I don’t control who turns up to a race but, yes, sometimes my
heart sinks when there’s a hitter on the line who I didn’t expect. I consider
the condition I want to be at on that start line that would make me happy, and
then work out if I am willing to make the sacrifices and put in the time to get
myself to that level. If I’m satisfied that I’ve worked hard and smart, then
the result is what it is. I don’t get angry at the person who beat me, I get angry
at myself for being lazy or making poor choices in my preparation if that’s
been the case. Or just accept that someone was better despite me being in the
form of my life.
Well this has turned into a bit of a ramble. I’m not sure
it’s answered many questions about women who don’t race, but it is a bit of
insight from one who does and sometimes feels like other women would prefer she
didn’t.
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DeleteDo you seriously think some guys don't do the same thing? This is more a personality issue rather that a reason women don't ride. I have entered many races and will never have any chance of coming anywhere near the top. I know many other women who do the same.
Well written article!
ReplyDeleteRefreshing article thanks! Its nice to read something for once that doesn't moan about women not racing because of men, competition being intimidating or low esteem etc etc. I would love more women to race XC for FUN and fitness. It would be cool to have other racers to consistently race to benchmark against and set those smaller improvement goals. Much more rewarding to beat someone who is usually a bit faster than you, than being the only one in your category...
ReplyDeleteLove your attitude. I think you've hit the nail on the head about the discomfort some women feel about competition, but I'm glad you haven't let that deter you.
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